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Getting the Most Out of a Sex Toy For Couples Adding toys to your sex collection can provide excitement and variety increase pleasure and help close the orgasm gap between women and men But its important to take sex toys seriously and respect and only make use of toys that are bodysafe It is essential to discuss sex toys and accessories with your partner Choose a neutral time and dont bring the subject up just prior to or after sex Selecting an item to play with As with all things in sex its important to be patient and select wisely With so many options that are available its important to ensure that what youre buying is compatible with your partners needs and sex preferences Ask a sex educator or a staff member at a shop that is familiar with couples toys for recommendations Make sure you and your partner have the same view of safe sexual contact This means using condoms whenever you share anything that can go up the shaft of a sex toy and cleaning everything thoroughly after use If you arent at ease discussing these issues with your partner its best to keep the toys separated until you have built up some trust Your partner and you must also consider whether you prefer external or internal stimulation best toys for couples offer both while others are specialized in one or the other A cockring that vibrates like the Satisfyer Cock Ring can stimulate both the anal ducts as well as the clitoral area of a partner during the game Other options include a vibrating prostate GSpot massager or a vibrating scrotum stimulation device Once youve decided on the kind of toy best suits your preferences you can begin shopping together This will help you build excitement and anticipation and prepare to play with the toy When you take the toy to your bed keep the attention on your partner and you and encourage one another by engaging in verbal conversation read dirty talk Its important to keep in mind that toys should increase your enjoyment not replace it Some people have a hard time with this concept believing that toys compete with them in the race for sexual pleasure As Ashford says Sex toys are only capable of mimicking certain sensations but they are not able to replace you Its easy to start when your partner is willing to give the new experience to try Simply tell them that youd like to experiment with a toy for couples during a masturbation session or playing After youve discovered an item that both of you enjoy discuss how it can be used for sex in order to enhance your sexual pleasure Getting started Toys that are designed for couples can bring your playing in the bedroom to a whole new level But its crucial to make sure that both partners are willing to play with them Theres still a lot of social stigmas and misunderstandings about the idea of using toys for sex and many people may be reluctant to try this type of pleasure with their partner Its best to start by having a conversation with your partner about this topic You can also talk about what sensations you are interested in and what you want from your partner when you are having sexual relations Its important to broach the subject of sex toys in a neutral setting like over dinner or while watching television Be careful not to bring up the subject when youre having an intimate relationship as it can cause tension Avoid using toys in intimate moments such as when you are kissing or spooning This can lead you to feel a sense of pressure and guilty which can cause harm to your relationship If your partner doesnt feel comfortable with the idea of experimenting with sexually explicit toys its ok to let them know Just dont try to force them to change their mind by giving ultimatums or making them feel guilty Try to understand their motivations and address any underlying concerns or feelings of inadequacy For example If they claim that they feel anxious about their performance in the bedroom you can suggest that they overcome this by discussing ways different toys can improve the way they feel during intercourse When youre ready to start exploring consider starting small and going for something as simple as an oscillator They are easy to store discrete and can be ideal for testing the waters before investing in a larger more intricate toy When you begin to experiment with toys you can gradually increase intensity and then move onto more advanced toys such as nipple clips or paddles When you first begin using couples sex toy its a good idea for you to buy a large amount of lube Its crucial to have plenty of lube to make the most out of your toys Getting the most out of sex toys It can be difficult to discuss sexual toys in a couple Many people are still uncomfortable using them with their partner due to of the stigma they carry in the world But the truth is that couples who use toys can experience a greater sexual experience than they would have without them They also can improve their relationship and increase sexual satisfaction To get the most out of sex toys couples should be open and honest about their experiences and feelings with them They should also try out various toys to determine ones that are suitable for them Some sex toys have been designed for couples Vibrating pleasure rings and dildos with dualended ends are two examples best toys for couples are an excellent way to heat up the bedroom and break away from sex routines Some toys include the ability to control the temperature making it easy to heat up the bedroom It is recommended to begin with small gentle toys These toys can be used to help you move on to more intense and larger toys in the future Remember that sex toy are merely tools for enjoyment and shouldnt replace masturbation You should also use plenty of lubricant to ensure that everything is comfortable and smooth While its important to discuss your interests with your partner dont force them to use toys Its fine if theyre not initially interested Give them a few minutes to discover what they like Try different positions of the toys and different parts of your body to figure the best position for both you and your companion For beginners you can start with a vibrator that is safe to use on any part of their body You can then move on to other devices such as clit and Gspot stimulators a strapon vibrator that is perfect for the lateral or the nipple clamps that are ideal for couples who enjoy BDSM Use a waterbased lubricant of top quality to ensure that the experience is pleasant and stimulating Keep it up Discuss what works best for you and your partner when using sexually explicit toys This will increase the excitement and trust with the toy Its a great opportunity to get to know your companion better and bring back the excitement Couples are hesitant about trying sex toys together They fear that their partners think they are seeking out external pleasure from sexual activity However this is not the case In fact couples who play with toys are reported to be more intimate than before They also have a more intimate conversation during the intercourse Although any sex tool can be used to induce sexual stimulation in an individual however those that are made specifically for this purpose are more fun and intimate These include vibrators that connect to the penis ring which can be placed between the lips and the clit and dildos with dual ends specifically designed to stimulate both the lips and the clit To introduce sex toys to an intimate relationship it is best to start slowly and at your own pace You can buy sexually explicit toys from stores or online and try them on your own to get a sense of how they perform You can also invite your partner to play with a toy you already have and then gradually introduce it to your sex life together Couples sexual toys in addition to making sex more enjoyable can aid in closing the orgasm gaps that exist between men and women in heterosexual relationships This gap is caused by inconsistent clitoral stimulation during intercourse Sex toys can aid couples in overcoming this problem by increasing the frequency of sexual arousals during sex Sexy toys have been around for a long time However some couples are reluctant to try them because they think they will harm traditional sexual pleasure Couples need to realize that sex toys are not intended to be a substitute for each other but rather as sexual supplements They can also aid couples gain a greater understanding of each other by helping them learn to communicate their desires and wants
